person but there have certainly been times in my life when I've felt less enthused than normal. I've become familiar with the signs. `I can't be bothered' enters the vocabulary by takeaway and a date with the couch. routine that'd make Jane Fonda look lazy; or ending a relationship may motivate you to vamp up your look to make the ex realise what they're missing out on. Getting engaged could set you on a path of mili- tary like organisation as you plan your wedding; and a new job may inspire you to get out and network more in an effort to build your circle of infl uence and get noticed. lift your game, keep your energy levels high and achieve all you want? don't. Volunteer some time at a local soup kitchen or spend some time in a nursing home there's a strong chance that the experience will leave you wanting to achieve more in order to help others, and give you an increased gratitude for your lot in life. development seminar or enrol in a course on a subject that interests you. Read a book you've been meaning to or talk with someone who's an expert and can teach you something new. dow shopping in luxury boutiques or visit a travel agent and grab some brochures to dream about your next indulgent holiday. ling in their life, you'll be inspired to do the same. If you can't access someone you fi nd overwhelm- ingly inspiring, try reading a biography of someone remarkable and then see if they have some habits you can emulate. or jump in the ocean or just go and sit in a beautiful garden, contemplating what you'd like to achieve and where you'd like to go next. together once a week for a chat about how you're doing. This is sure to keep you accountable and hopefully deterred from those Saturday night couch- ing sessions. Life is there to be enjoyed and lived to the full so don't waste another minute before throw- ing yourself into action! walk or go to the gym, and then do it again and again until the habit is cultivated. your best buddy, some paper and some coloured markers. Write down everything you want in your life and get clear on an action plan with some short, medium and long term realistic goals. of being motivated, try doing things differently. Get your coffee from a different place; exercise at a different time; stop doing something you've been doing for a long time and no longer serves you; and do something that scares you. this time to take stock of where you are and where you want to be. Flick through some magazines and cut out everything that appeals to you and anything you'd like to strive for. Remember this doesn't necessarily have to be materialistic things cut out words and images relating to your health, your relationships and anything else important to you. |