natural biological drivers. Our natural program is to avoid and move away from Studies have shown that the most common emotions people feel during the goal achievement process are frustration, anxiety, fear, boredom and apathy. of our normal biological desires and behaviour. rationalised it by making up a story around why they couldn't do it. Most of the time they said it was not their fault. i.e. `I will get back to this goal when work calms down a bit'. When analysed, their stories were inaccurate and delusional. examples of other people who were successful at achieving a similar goal they saw the other person's goal as being easier, or that the other person was having more fun getting to their goal. None of these things were true. In fact those that stuck to their goals were as challenged, bored, frustrated with their goals as those that quit. They just didn't see those things as a reason to quit. 3. keep going. For example to get people to exercise researchers got them just to walk for 10 minutes a day, however once they were out and exercising they continued to walk much longer. 4. Those people that did achieve their goal didn't analyse it too much, when it came time to do their chosen activity, they just did it.. tension in their environment to make them keep going. Tension from parents, coaches and fellow students. All these sources of tension keep them accountable. Announce your goals to people and set up tension in your environment to keep you accountable. 6. small habits like the way they drove to work, what wrist they wore their watch on, which hand they brushed their teeth with, lost far more weight than the people in the study who did not change these small habits. leading educators, researchers and thought leaders in the area of human performance! In addition to his work in human performance he is also the CEO of `The Glucose Club' www.dradamfraser.com |